A bowl of cereal can show everyone’s personalities if you think about it. When you pour yourself a bowl of cereal, you pour your own. Only you know how much cereal you like with how much milk you prefer. Only you would know whether to pour the milk or the cereal in first. When people try to pour you a bowl of cereal for you, they don’t know what you like and how you like it. This is similar to life, most people don’t know you and your story, so why let them define you? Why let them pour your milk and your cereal for you?
My point basically is that people should stop trying to judge and define people they just met, and people shouldn’t be oppressive and act like they own another person because they feel like they are superior or they have been friends with the “inferior friend” for a long time.
Relationships between people shouldn’t be like this either. This is completely my opinion, but I’m tired of the cliche the girl changes who she is so the guy will like her more, or the guy ditches his friends just to make the girl he likes notice him. I don’t think its necessary for other people to basically control others for their own personal uses or benefits.
I think that relationships (friendships or actual relationships) should be completely open and not controlling. When you are in a relationship, it should be because the other person likes you for you. Be yourself around people you love.
Because:
so just be yourself because you are the only one that can pour the perfect bowl of cereal for you, and no one can tell you otherwise.
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